Traumatic event: happens
Other people: fight / flight / freeze / fawn / flock / feed / fu..
Me: lol
humour and trauma-informed psychotherapy
online. international. weird
intensives - 90% online. 10% in a cabin in the woods.
Custom 1- and 3-day intensives in Durango, Mexico — for the work that doesn’t fit in a Zoom box.
I answer every message myself. No bots, no intake forms, no wait lists.
When you write, include your name, where you’re based, and a line about what brings you — it lets me answer you properly the first time.
Individual
Support for you,
one-on-one
Identity, big exciting ideas, relationships, grief, trauma — or simply existing authentically in a world that keeps asking you to be less. We work online, at a pace that fits your life.
Relational
Support for you and other(s).
I work with the relational field between people, and the individuals co-creating it. Open relationships, ethical non-monogamy, polycules, any configuration of partnership — we explore communication, intimacy, conflict, and connection as they actually move in and between you. Blame- and shame-free.
For therapists of all levels
Consultation & Supervision
Sometimes you need a colleague to think alongside you. I offer consultation and supervision with curiosity, honesty, respect for the complexity of your clinical work — and good company for the WTF moments. Students and therapists in training: I support dissertations, major papers, and the institutional weather too. More under Consultation & Supervision.
A note on humour
Humour is connection. Finding levity in the heaviest and darkest of places is human. Co-creating humour in the face of the absurd, the ridiculous, and the genuinely hilarious builds belonging, ease, and acceptance of what is. Working with me is not standup comedy — it is making space to hold multiple perspectives, including the funny ones.
Therapists: I teach on this. Presentations, workshops, and online groups 🙂
Fees & Payment
Money is already hard; no need to make it complicated. I work on a sliding scale as a matter of ethics — fees are discussed in the free intro call. Payment methods depend on where you are based.
WITHIN MEXICO
SPEI or bank deposit
Direct transfer or deposit to a Mexican account. Simple, fast, no fees.
outside Mexico
Wise
The most cost-effective option for international transfers.
Card / online
Payable invoice
I can send an invoice payable by credit or debit card and a range of online methods, varying by country.